Open Your Heart Chakra to Find Love



Jungle Beauty Goddess Kalahari Advice Column
Ruler of the Heart, Love, & Relationships

Via the Imagination of Cassandra George Sturges

Dear Kalahari,

What can I do to find a boyfriend? Most people I know at work are married or already in relationships. I don’t want to meet someone online. I hear so many horror stories about people who have been Cat-fished. Additionally, many of the young men that I meet are nothing like my parent’s generation. They don’t want to date you; they just want a hook up—somebody to just have sex with. I don’t like the bar or club scene. I feel like I am running out of time before it’s too late to have children.

What can I do to make a love connection?

Ready for Love




Dear Ready for Love,

The advice that is commonly given for a person in your predicament is to tell you to join sports clubs, volunteer at theaters, museums, or places in general where single people meet. You could also set up a profile on reputable matchmaking dating sites such as eHarmony, match.com, or Zoosk. If you do all of these things you are positioning yourself to meet someone.

But meeting someone and attracting a meaningful relationship are two different things. The reason that you are having difficulty meeting a mate is probably because your heart chakra is blocked in some way. If you have issues with trusting and forgiving others, finding and keeping a loving partner is going to be one of your biggest challenges in this carnation. There is absolutely no way around doing the emotional work necessary to cleanse your heart chakra.


If your heart energy wheels are stuck you are not capable of letting love flow in. The sludge that stops the heart wheels from moving includes being raped or molested as a child, being abandoned by a parent or a primary care giver, or being raised in an environment that is overly strict or without boundaries and rules. A child learns how to trust through consistency. Many humans believe that trust is an intangible concept-- but trust is an energy pattern of repeated behavior. When parents prepare meals, read bed time stories, and give their children baths on a schedule the child learns how to trust others.


The child learns what he or she can expect without having to beg, wish, worry or pray for it. Their spirit inhales a sense of worthiness to be loved simply because they exist. Their heart chakra wheel s churns with a milky, radiant, creamy, iridescent pink, green, and gold light that has a magnificent glow that attracts more love light into its vortex. When you see these people as adults they always have a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, or several suitors who are waiting to share love with them. You will notice that people with open and balanced heart chakras quickly attract new love once an old relationship ends. What you will notice most about these people is that they are not the least bit bitter about what happened in their previous relationships.

I don’t want to be responsible for the emotional upheaval that would be required for you to let go of some pretty hurtful things that have happened to you in your past. You should seek counseling or meditate for guidance from your soul.  But if you truly want to find a mate, you must truly forgive someone important in your life and or learn how to trust people again. Without doing these things it doesn’t matter how many single people you meet if your heart is closed to love. Love cannot vibrate without a place to connect.

Sincerely,

Jungle Beauty Goddess Kalahari

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