How to Deal with Backstabbers, Fake, and Two-Faced People

How to Deal with Backstabbers, Fake, and Two-Faced People

How to Make a Bitch--Your Bitch – Part 1

By Cassandra George Sturges

Before we can talk about “How to Deal with Backstabbers, Fake and Two-Faced People;” my preferred title is, “How to make a Bitch--your Bitch”—we must first define what a bitch is --that does not include a female dog.

There are three types of bitches, a good bitch, a karmic bitch, and a fake, two-faced, backstabbing bitch.

Good Bitch

A Good bitch is not a bitch at all. She is a confident, assertive, decisive, and brilliant woman who knows who she is and does not apologize for her authority, power, and strength.

The Good Bitch is the type of woman who only wants the best from you and for you. She doesn’t want to hear your excuses as to why you even attempted to give her less than your absolute best. She demands perfection from herself, you, and everyone else.

Yes, this is the mother, coach, boss, manager, professor, teacher, mentor, president, who made you do the same task over and over and over again until you cried. You told your family, friends, and anyone else who would listen—about what a ball-busting bitch she is. 

Nevertheless, the truth is—you know you would not be who you are and where you are today if it was not for her tough love, guidance, and wisdom.

Your hate for her is only temporary. When you finish crying yourself to sleep at night, comforting your bruised ego, and licking your wounds—you will see that not only do you love her—you will revere her for the rest of your life.

This is not the type of bitch that you want even to think about making your bitch. You will perish, if she even thinks for one moment that you were contemplating undermining her mentorship, authority, and wisdom.

You can trust her with your life. She is direct and honest and what she says behind your back, she has already said it to your face. She is not two-faced or a backstabber. However, she is not going to tell you anything but the truth-- even if it stings.

Don’t let her know that you even read this article. I won’t tell.

Karmic Bitch

Karma Bitch is a different type of energy force. You must have wisdom, intelligence, and integrity even to know when you are in her presence. Have you ever heard the expression that “Pay back is a bitch?” This is to whom they were referring to when they made this statement 

Keep in mind before you become indignant—that Karmic bitch hates hypocrites with a passion. You want to be forgiven—but you don’t want to forgive others. You are frequently late, but you are offended when other people are late. You are always absent but you are offended when other people take time off. You do illegal drugs –but you want your children to say no to drugs. You get the picture.

If Karmic Bitch is in your life, she is there to teach you a spiritual lesson about treating others the way that you would like to be treated. Therefore, if you cheated on your mate and now you are being cheated on-- be gracious enough to learn your lessons, forgive, and move on.

She doesn’t care about the B.S. rationale or logic that you tell yourself about why it is okay for you to do it and not for other people to do it as well. 

If you are a hypocrite—Karmic Bitch will show you no mercy. However, if you take full accountability for your own mistakes, your actions, your part in the scenario—she will show you grace and mercy. If you ask her for Vaseline, she may or may not oblige you. If you take it like “G” (gangster) in fact, she may even let you off the hook.

If you know for a fact that the person in your life is not intentionally paying you back for all of the things that you have done to other people in the past—this is really karmic bitch in disguise.

My best advice to you is not to look directly in her eyes. Look away graciously. Admit your mistakes. Don’t look back. Move on and treat people the way you want to be treated.

Karmic Bitch does not believe in backstabbing because she knows that everything that you do to another person, you are really doing it to yourself tenfold. Your actions, thoughts, and deeds tell the Universe exactly how you want to be treated-- and the type of people you want to manifest into your life.

Two –faced Backstabbing Bitch… Part Two