Life Quote
of the Day:
“How terrible is it to be beautiful, smart,
and strong—but end up being alone every night!”
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By, Cassandra George Sturges
I have heard so many women talk about how
beautiful they are, and how they can get any man they want, and how every man
they see is attracted to them… yet they are unable to find and keep a long-term
relationship.
On the other hand, some women brag about
feeling more attractive than their ex-husband’s or ex-boyfriend’s new wife or
girlfriend. They feel that if they are deemed more physically attractive than his
current wife or girlfriend this means that they are superior. Therefore, the
man has downgraded and suffered a great loss because he has selected a less
beautiful woman to fall in love with.
Of course, when women say these things, we
as women never say anything back to them. We offer our support, with a high
five, and tell our friend, “Yeah girrrl, you run circles around her.” We know
our friend is hurting and we don’t want to crush her ego. However, as women we
need to start telling each other the truth—in a compassionate and loving way in
front of the person’s face—how we really feel.
I think the problem is… that women don’t
understand that we are not blow-up dolls, centerfold models, or pin up girls. The
beauty standard for eye candy does not apply to a healthy loving relationship
whereby two people respect and treat each other as equals.
How you look is not nearly as important as
your day-to-day job performance. He doesn’t care if all of his friends think
you are gorgeous,-- if you have slept with half of them and flirted with the
other half. Maybe he prefers cellulite, wrinkles, love handles, and sagging
breasts to lying, cheating, never home, can’t admit when you are wrong, and
selfish.
Life
Quotes Practical Application
1.
If you are alone, don’t think it is because you
are so beautiful that men and women are intimidated by you. If you look in the
mirror and the best thing you see about yourself is your reflection—you are in
trouble. Based on your attitude and
character would you want to date you?
2.
Men have told me that the best intimate
relationships that they have ever had, have been with women who most people
consider not to be physically attractive based on mainstream standards of
beauty. They said that women who think they are cute are the least active in
bed because they don’t want to mess up their hair; make unattractive faces, and
they think their mere appearance is enough to keep their partner aroused.
However, men reported women who are not “mainstream pretty” feel that they have
to work for your love and therefore, they contribute more in the bedroom and
tend to be excellent lovers.
3.
It is so disrespectful to other women to say, “I
can get any man I want.” Even though we don’t say anything back to you when you
say this—we are all thinking—except my man--@#$%&. Additionally, we are
keeping you at a distance. When women make statements like this they are saying
that they are so physically beautiful that no man can resist their sexual
advances.
If
this is the case, why don’t you use your extraordinary beauty power to keep at
least one man interested in you for an extended period of time. As you probably
already know, it’s not easy to keep and find love when what makes you truly
beautiful are your imperfections, honesty, and vulnerability.
I have heard so many women talk about how beautiful they are, and how they can get any man they want, and how every man they see is attracted to them… yet they are unable to find and keep a long-term relationship… Maybe he prefers cellulite, wrinkles, love handles, and sagging breasts to lying, cheating, never home, can’t admit when you are wrong, and selfish.
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lessons, and relationship quotes and their applications to your life.
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