Jungle Beauty Goddess Kalahari Advice Column
Ruler of the Heart, Love, & Relationships
Via the Imagination of Cassandra George Sturges
Dear Jungle Beauty Goddess Kalahari,
What can I do to find a boyfriend? Most people I know at
work are married or already in relationships. I don’t want to meet someone
online. I hear so many horror stories about people who have been Cat-fished. Additionally,
many of the young men that I meet are nothing like my parent’s generation. They
don’t want to date you; they just want a hook up—somebody to just have sex
with. I don’t like the bar or club scene. I feel like I am running out of time
before it’s too late to have children.
What can I do to make a love connection?
Ready for Love
Dear Ready for Love,
The advice that is commonly given for a person in your
predicament is to tell you to join sports clubs, volunteer at theaters, museums,
or places in general where single people meet. You could also set up a profile
on reputable matchmaking dating sites such as eHarmony, match.com, or Zoosk. If
you do all of these things you are positioning yourself to meet someone.
But meeting someone and attracting a meaningful relationship
are two different things. The reason that you are having difficulty meeting a
mate and or falling in love is probably because your heart chakra is blocked in some way. If you have
issues with trusting and forgiving others, finding and keeping a loving partner
is going to be one of your biggest challenges in this carnation. There is
absolutely no way around doing the emotional work necessary to cleanse your
fourth chakra.
If your heart energy wheels are stuck you are not capable of
letting love flow in. The sludge that stops the heart wheels from moving
includes being raped or molested as a child, being abandoned by a parent or a
primary care giver, or being raised in an environment that is overly strict or
without boundaries and rules. A child learns how to trust through consistency.
Many humans believe that trust is an intangible concept-- but trust is an
energy pattern of repeated behavior. When parents prepare meals, read bed time
stories, and give their children baths on a schedule the child learns how to
trust others.
The child learns what he or she can expect without having to
beg, wish, worry or pray for it. Their spirit inhales a sense of worthiness to
be loved simply because they exist. Their heart chakra wheel s churns with a
milky, radiant, creamy, iridescent pink, green, and gold light that has a
magnificent glow that attracts more love light into its vortex. When you see
these people as adults they always have a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife,
or several suitors who are waiting to share love with them. You will notice
that people with open and balanced heart chakras quickly attract new love once
an old relationship ends.What you will notice most about these people is that
they are not the least bit bitter about what happened in their previous
relationships.
I don’t want to be responsible for the emotional upheaval
that would be required for you to let go of some pretty hurtful things that
have happened to you in your past. You should seek counseling or meditate for
guidance from your soul. But if you
truly want to find a mate, you must truly forgive someone important in your
life and or learn how to trust people again. Without doing these things it
doesn’t matter how many single people you meet if your heart is closed to love.
Love cannot vibrate without a place to connect.
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